One link. A conversation. A memory.
Not a form with fields — a sequence that starts the moment you share the link, and keeps working long after the candles are out.
Send the invitation
Create a gathering and share a single link. No app for guests to download, no account to make. Your Social Secretary greets each person by name and answers in your voice.
Guests just ask
Dress code, directions, what to bring, who else is coming. Every question gets a warm, accurate answer — and the RSVP, headcount, and dietary notes fall out of the conversation without anyone filling in a form.
Coterie remembers
Each exchange seeds a person record. Maya brings Theo. Sam doesn’t drink. Your aunt loves the early seating. Next gathering, your Social Secretary already knows — and so do you.
Gatherings end. Tending doesn’t.
Every event tool treats the guest list as disposable. Coterie treats it as the point.
Built from conversation, not data entry
You never fill in a contact card. Records grow from what people naturally say to your Social Secretary — one question at a time.
Yours, quietly
Records live with you, not on a social graph. No profiles for guests to manage, nothing public. Just a host who remembers.
Compounding warmth
The tenth invitation you send someone should feel nothing like the first. Coterie is how it gets there.
Maya Chen
4 gatherings · usually a yes- Brings Theo (plus-one, vegetarian)From Solstice Dinner · June
- Asked to meet the ceramicist againFrom Studio Night · April
- Prefers early evening; leaves by 10Pattern across 3 gatherings
- Offered to host the next oneWorth taking her up on
For the ones who gather friends — and the ones who gather clients.
Your table, tended
Dinners, showers, birthdays, the standing Sunday thing. Coterie keeps the thread between gatherings so hosting feels like a practice, not a production. Start free, stay as long as the tending helps.
Closer to the people you serve
Planners, designers, community builders, brands: a gathering is how you close the distance. Every guest who talks with your Social Secretary meets you at your most gracious — and every event deepens what you know about the people who love what you do, so the next one lands closer still.
The next gathering is the easiest one to start.
Create an invitation, send one link, and let the Social Secretary do the talking. Every guest who asks it a question will understand Coterie better than any page could explain it.
Start your first gathering